Rediscovering life and manhood after prostate cancer

I was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the end of 2019 and feared losing my manhood and my life. I was lucky to have my prostate surgically removed before the cancer spread more widely. The most minimal roadmap for recovery was provided. I want to expand the roadmap and the conversation about recovering life and manhood after prostate cancer.

Step by step, this is to share my story as it unfolded over the last 20 months. My aim is to mark some points on the rather uncharted landscape, so you can build your own roadmap. It is a direct and personal account of my body, head, heart and soul journey as well as the inner and outer resources that helped me along the way. I am also grateful to my wife and other cancer survivors for sharing their stories on these pages.

The goal: rebuild health, expand identity as a man.

Before and after surgery: two short videos

Get the lowdown in 3 minutes: click above for 2 short, revealing videos

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Journeys of recovery from – and adaptation to – prostate cancer

Below are the thumbnails of the most recent posts – click on each for the full story. For chronological order, please visit diagnosis, treatment and recovery pages. More here every week. I invite you to subscribe (see above and sidebar on the right/below) so you don’t miss a thing.

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